faith, hope and love

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Wedding Plans

Vince and I will fly to San Diego tomorrow to take care of some wedding stuff. We haven't checked anything off our to do list because life has been crazy lately. Aside from the move and starting new jobs, we had to wait until Vince finished taking his board exam so he didn't have to worry about studying while meeting with wedding vendors.

I can't wait to see my family and friends back home. My aunt from Oxnard, CA will be spending a week in San Diego while Vince and I are there. One of my cousins is having a party for his daughters' birthdays on Saturday. A mini-reunion for all my relatives in Cali has already been planned. I am really excited eventhough I know that going home won't really be a vacation since we have to work on our wedding plans.

So anyway, back to wedding plans. I want to do something to commemorate my late parents during my wedding ceremony or reception. I have heard of others lighting a candle in memory of their late loved ones. I am wondering if there are other creative ways I could do this. Any suggestions?

Wednesday, August 17, 2005

dancing through life

I started my new job at X Hospital last week. X Hospital belongs to a big group of hospital and twice each month, they give all new employees of each hospitals an orientation to the facilities, benefits, policies, customer service etc. On the second day of orientation, the facilitator gave each one of us a piece of paper and instructed us to go to other employees, write their names up, which department/hospital they will be going to, their functions, and what they like to do in their spare times. Being a shy person, one of my concerns about moving to another place is the difficulty of finding new friends. But I vowed that I will try my best to open myself up to opportunities of making new friends. This activity, I thought, was a great way to start.

I went up to two older ladies in the corner of the room. They were talking to each other, so I waited for them to acknowledge me,which seemed like forever. I flashed my biggest smile when one of the ladies looked at me. She didn't say anything, so I introduced myself and asked her name. The other lady finally looked at me, but gave me a look that made me feel unwelcomed. It was as if I disturbed her from a very important conversation. She didn't seem too interested with the task the facilitator gave us, either. This really disturbed me, especially because the facilitator talked about customer service not only to customers and patients, but also to your co-workers. I left their table feeling uneasy about joining this hospital. I know they are not representatives of all the employees of that hospital, but I still felt so unwelcomed.

I don't know why but this incident discouraged me in meeting new friends. I tried to shake the feeling out and be positive, but it bothered me so much. I remembered the story of a little girl who loved to dance. (To protect the innocent people, some details were changed) The little girl was in her ballet class or recital. She and her classmates had to hold hands and dance. She tried to take the hand of one of her classmates but the other girl ignored her and danced with another classmate. The girl was surprised at first, for having been rejected. But soon after, she just went along and danced happily on her own. How I wish I had that little girl's resilience and spunk. I should take a lesson from her "So what if they ignored me; I am gonna dance and have fun."

Sunday, August 07, 2005

High Fives

Thanks to Paz and Star for tagging me:

5 CDs In My Player:

  1. Kelli Clarkson--Breakaway (for the pop princess in me)
  2. Avril Lavigne-- Under My Skin(for the angry punk girl in me)
  3. Ms Saigon Soundtrack (I love Broadway! And I love Lea!)
  4. Vivaldi's Four Seasons (always makes me feel happy)
  5. The Lord of the Ring Soundtrack (whenever Vince is driving, he has to listen to this, so I end up listening to it)
5 Movies I've Seen Recently:

  1. Batman Begins
  2. Mr. & Mrs. Smith
  3. Unleashed
  4. Star Wars Episode 3
  5. The Incredibles
5 Nice Things That Happened To You Lately:

  1. Vince shaved his moustache/goatee (or fu-man chu as he calls it)
  2. Will start new job tomorrow (I should be sleeping now)
  3. Finished most of the unpacking; I can finally see the floor.
  4. I'm back on DSL, yaayy. No more dial-up service. I can blog and read others blogs.
  5. I got engaged!
what are the things you enjoy doing when there's no one around you?

  1. Belt out Broadway and Pop songs (off-key, of course, much to my neighbors' dismay)
  2. Dance and practice steps
  3. Play computer games such as Yahoo's Bookworm
  4. Read books or articles out loud using different accents (yes, I am a weirdo)
  5. Put together different outfits and modelling them in front of the mirror (ok, you can laugh now)
what lowers your stress/blood pressure/anxiety level?

  1. praying, quiet time with GOD, reading the bible
  2. exercise --yoga or a good cardio
  3. Classical music/ Brahms Lullabies
  4. going out/spending time/chatting with friends
  5. Vince
If you are reading this and you haven't done it yet, I tag you.

Friday, August 05, 2005

July Highlights

July flew by so quickly. At the risk of sounding like a broken record, I must say that I've been so busy all month that I neglected this poor blogsite. Here's a recap of what made me busy the rest of the month of July.

July 15 and 16

My friend Grace has cooked up a plan for our group to go to Wisconsin Dells. So, with Grace driving, Wendy at the front seat and Cielo, Nidie and I at the back, the three hour ride to the Dells was not so bad. I fell asleep maybe half of the way, and half of it munched junk food with the girls. I didn't realized I needed a break so much until we arrived at the water park. Playing in the waterpark, going in the waterslides and just soaking up the sun were just what I needed to refresh me. Our first night at the resort, we planned to see the Tommy Bartlett show but Grace's car wouldn't start. The battery died because we plugged the cooler for almost three hours. The ever-prepared Grace brought out an emergency charger from her trunk but it didn't work. She had to call for someone to charge the battery back up. After hours of waiting, the battery was charged, but too late for the show. So we just ate dinner at Houlihan's.

The next day, we went on a Duck Tour. It was fun to see the houses by the Wisconsin river, and go through the woods on this duck bus. Our tour guide was sorta funny, too. After the tour, we finally got to see the Tommy Bartlett show. It's a water skii, sort of circus show. After a while it got boring. But there were some entertaining parts.


We went back to Chicago after that. My body hated me the next day when I had to go back to work.

This weekend was also the weekend for Vince's brother Q's graduation party in LA. Vince joined his family in celebrating Q's graduation from residency. I missed the party because I had committed myself in going to Wisconsin with the girls, and I had to work that Sunday. I really regret missing it though, as I heard from Vince that everyone had a great time.

July 20

My last day from work at St. Joe's. G and S, my managers, had breakfast prepared for the starff in honor of me and A, another employee leaving our unit. E, another nurse also made up a tray of sumptuous lemon bars. I was also surprised that some of the docs came up to me and said goodbye. Dr. C even gave me a token to remember him by. I was really touched for what they did.

My two years at this unit have been very challenging. I had a difficult time adjusting to some of my co-workers attitudes. Fortunately, I have forged friendships with a few wonderful women(most of them from the night staff) who made the working place bearable. Because of them, leaving this unit has not become that easy.

July 23

Ate Cynthia, Grace, Cielo and I went to Grant Park to enjoy the free stepping dance lesson that was offered to the public. It rained a little bit and the park was wet but a lot of people still came to learn a few moves. We all had a great time moving to the rhythm or in my case, out of rhythm. Cielo and Ate Cynthia picked the dance steps so quickly. I was fumbling most of the time. After the lesson, we went back to the Korean place where Sooh took us the last time. The place was packed and the waitress didn't seem to happy to see us. Nevertheless, we enjoyed yummy Korean barbecue.

July 27

My quest for "The Dress" started today. Grace, Lea and I drove to the bridal store to try on some dresses. We found mostly strapless gowns. I was drawn to this one strapless dress that had beadings on the chest area and gather or ruche on one side of the waist. It's made up of silk or satin, I guess. Hehehehe, does it sound like I need to brush up on bridal gown terminologies? But Grace brought out this other dress with some embroideries. The gown looked elegant and simple enough for my liking. So now I was torn between two. But the quest hasn't end yet. The girls and I are planning to make more trips to different salons. I plan to buy my dress in Chicago, instead of Indy because I have no one to go dress-shopping with in Indy. Getting the dress from San Diego would be too much of a hassle since I would need to go back and forth to San Diego and Indy for alterations and fittings.

July 28

So the next day would have been my last day in Chicago. I was still at my apartment, all packed up. All I needed to do was clean the apartment. I decided to patch up the holes I made when I hung some racks on the bathroom wall. The bathroom wall was painted cream or off-white, but the patch or plaster used to cover up the holes was white. So I thought I would get some paint from Home Depot to touch it up. I chose a paint color that matched the bathroom wall closely, so I thought. When I got home, I painted over the patch and realized that it was a little light. It was not that obvious, but somehow, I got a little obsessive and decided to paint the whole wall. Yes, the entire wall. After finishing the wall, I went to clean the windows and noticed that the window sill had some stains. So I scrubbed it up with soap and sponge. Ooops, I scrubbed off the paint, too. So guess what. I ended up painting the window sill also. And while doing that, I was praying that the apartment janitor won't be upset at what I've done. When I told the apartment janitor that I would be leaving the next day and that I needed to make a walk-through with him, he told me, "just make sure the kitchen and bathroom are clean" I thought to myself, "you'll be surprised how clean they are."